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Meditation

Isolation has given me time to self enquire via meditation, and write blogs (maybe I should do a meta blog about blogging one day!)

As you probably know I practice trancendental meditation, but I’ve also taking time to follow guided meditations from my yoga teacher, who I’ve just done an online course with.

It’s given me time to delve deeper than usual and work through my most vulnerable feelings and emotions within myself. I had already done some of this before, but I got busy again with work and life, and meditating got put to one side. It was good to take time to really honour my emotions and work through them. I enjoy doing this, and love how I feel afterwards. I’ve done lots of different types of work on myself over the years; various therapies, all types of healing, homeopathy, and obviously yoga!

But sitting with my deepest feeling, and listening without judgement is not easy! (It might sound simple but it’s not!). I thought I had listened, or not judged, but no, I hadn’t! Sometimes I found I had only started, but barely scratched the surface. I spent time peeling back the layers to get to the core, and I have to say it’s blown me away. Intense feelings washed over me, but I was able to dedicate the time to process them, and appreciate what my body and mind were going through. I love that I feel I can move forward now!

I know I’ll always be working on myself, and it will be neverending! Plenty of things will pop up in life, and even as I deal with them, more new things arise. The good thing is that this gets easier the more you do it! You learn to keep more space within, and not fill yourself to bursting point!

Take time, feel what’s needed and breathe!

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We all need a hairdresser right now!

Some of you may not know that as well as teaching yoga I’m a hairdresser with a seat at Bamboo on Mill Road. As the lockdown starts to lift more, I’m starting to book clients in for their hair to do done.

Over the past few weeks I’ve been busy in the background trying to get ready to start working back in the salon. One aspect of this is ordering PPE for myself and clients.

I’m thinking of the environment as much as I can to get back to work by limiting the plastic. The disposable towels and gowns are biodegradable, but sadly not everything can be this way.

The hand sanitiser and my workstation and tools cleaner has no scent or harsh chemicals in it, while still being hospital grade. It’s won’t harm your pets once on your hands in case they like to lick you!

The PPE is not only for mine and your benefit, but others who are in the salon at the time. Thinking along this line, I have also bought a no-contact thermometer, which I’ll use on entry to the salon. Face masks need to be used and worn properly, and I’ll be able to sell one to clients who don’t have their own.

It’s hard for all of us in the industry as there are no real guidelines to follow, so I’m doing everything I possibly can to make this work, and I really appreciate your cooperation at this time.

So as soon as we get green light I’m ready to just start. The date at the minute is the 4th of July all being well.

I started to get in touch with my clients at the start of June, when the lifting phases were announced.

I am (understandably!) going to be busy, but we’re not going to be silly in the salon. There will be fewer people in per day, and we are allowing longer time to clean and get ready in between each client. We won’t be seeing other clients while colours are developing unless a stylist is not in to work, to keep your experience 1:1.

There will be appointments only (i.e. no walk-ins),and rebooking and payment will happen at the work station to have fewer people in the reception area.

It will be a big change getting back to work, and hopefully will feel more natural once everything gets back to its new normal, what ever that may be.

I understand it will feel strange for a while (for me too!), but I hope by doing this it puts your minds to ease to come and get your hair done, for a feel good factor if nothing else. We definitely all need that right now!

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Fresh flower loose “leaf” tea!

As I’m relearning about Chinese traditional medicine I’m also going back to my roots. I’ve been gifted by having this upbringing of herbs, medicinal soups and natural medicines. There’s so much to learn, and I’m finding I know very little, but I’m willing to learn and take in everything I can absorb!
 
I’m rediscovering my dried fresh flower bud tea… I’ll share what I know about two of the flower bud teas I’ve recently tried again.
 
Rose flower (Mei gui):
Helps regulates chi/energy and blood (In traditional Chinese medicine, chi is also blood flow). Stagnation of chest and liver. It has a cleansing action on the body by clearing heat, drying dampness and promoting elimination via urination and bowel movements. It detoxifies the body and replenishes the chi and blood.
 
Chrysanthemum flower (Guk faa):
Clears heat. Relieves wind-hfrom the liver channel and clears the eyes. Cools heat of the liver and kidney due to Yin deficiency. Relieves patterns of liver Yang rising.
 
They’re good for all, but they it does depends on your body and make up: we are all different, with different elements. We need to balance where we are individually, and we’re never at exactly the same place or stage in our lives!
 
Try them and let me know what you think! Another thing to try is rubbing the used buds on your face when they’re cool after finishing your drink – great for the skin!
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Online courses

One nice thing is actually having the time commit to and do an online course.

I’ve signed up for a course to learn about acupressure points. I’m really interested in traditional Chinese medicine (TCM), well, all forms of alternative and holistic medicines to be honest! They’ve been around for years, and it’s fascinating how they’ve endured.

Our bodies have the ability to heal themselves given the right attention; I know as I’ve experienced this myself. That’s a story for another day!

In the first session I learned the points to soothe tension in and around the head area, which can help with so many things like insomnia and burnout. It’s a good way to regulate the tension and let go.

After practicing on myself the first night, I slept so well! The tension around my neck and jaw softened so much. All this just from the acupressure points – wow!

It’s based on the meridian lines: different organ within our bodies to help chi/energy flow more easily, which makes us feel better!

I will be incorporating in to my yoga classes going forward, as I’ve found the benefits of this and would love to share it with you.

I’m grateful for the time to be able to learn from this great knowledgeable teacher, and also having time to process the information and try things out!

Looking forward to working with you on this!

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Lockdown birthdays

It seems that most of my family, including me, have had or will have a birthday in lockdown, including some big ones!

It’s sad you can’t celebrate with family, or go and do what you would normally do. I would have loved to go away, but this year I actually would have been working (hairdressing!) as we planned to take the following weekend off. It would have been the long bank holiday weekend – at the start of the year I promised myself I’d take one Saturday completely off work a month.

I planned to meet up with old school friends near my actual birthday, but it was rescheduled to a future Zoom date. It’s a strange way to see everyone, but still good to try and celebrate on screen

The following evening we were due to be hosting a yin yoga and gong bath. I love these events as they bring so much lovely collective energy together, and they’re a pleasure to do. It’s been postponed, and I’m hoping we’ll be able to run the next one, currently scheduled for summer solstice in June. But sadly to be on in July now.

Happy birthday to these who have or had it in lock down!

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Holiday blues?

I love travelling. All travel. Abroad or local. Far flung, or just a hidden path around the corner.

My style is to have no set plan of where to go or what to do – I’m a huge fan of just exploring new places, and seeing which activities that leads me to.

Where to next? Well, I’m not sure. There are so many places in the world to visit, and so many things to do. All usually so easy to get to, whether that’s hopping on a train or a plane, and yet now… I guess since this lockdown we’ve all cut down on our carbon footprints!

Before this all started, people would always ask me what I’ve got planned for my hols, and for once I had nothing. They all commented that it wasn’t like me! I guess it’s worked out well in a way, as I’ve not ended up with plans to change, cancel, or postpone. Definitely a blessing in disguise.

What will I do and where will I go afterwards? I can’t say I know. I feel that I will probably not go anywhere far. Maybe stay put in Cambridgeshire, or possibly just to somewhere else in the UK. There are some beautiful places here, but as we all know it really does depend on the weather!

Where will you go? What do you want to do? Any thoughts? Decisions, decisions, decisions!

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Transcendental meditation

I’ve always practiced meditation, ever since I was a kid, but have never needed a label, so didn’t know what to call it!

Curiosity got the better of me, and after a few years of sending many enquiries out, I stumbled upon a name – transcendental meditation (TM). I felt a great connection with the teacher who was able to give me the name, so I decided to start studying TM with Jonathan.

We’re still in touch – he also has an essential oil shop, and does marma therapy. He has an incredibly humble aura, and I want to be like him when I’m older. He’s such an inspirational man.

This happened in December 2017, and in January 2018 my dad sadly had a severe stroke. He wasn’t awake for 4 weeks (of his own accord). Once he woke up, he had lost his speech, his ability to swallow, and movement of his right side.

He was in hospital for about 5 months, then was forced to move into a home. I know the hospital needs beds, but we wanted him home and were told no, so was in an awful place for the last two months of his life.

I visited him every day, sometimes twice, for seven months, on top of my work commitments. It wasn’t easy. We had lots of challenges to face ourselves, and my dad’s dignity was never met, both in hospital and the home.

It’s just so sad to see and witness how cruel life is, when we are led to believe it’s not. Not only with my dad; I witnessed this with so many other people in the same boat.

This is all an aside, some background for the post about meditation. I will be forever grateful that TM was in my life then. I did not have time to do any physical yoga practice for myself, but meditation is also a type of yoga! Some people associate yoga with the physical movements (asanas), but it’s much more than that.

TM got me through the hardest part of my life, even though it still hurts now. I cannot recommend it enough. Whatever form of meditation you choose, and however you do it: just do it. Start, or carry on. Learn more, and practise. Just 20 minutes twice a day.

It’s easy to learn and accessible to everyone. It lets you stay present in life, in the midst of whatever way your life is heading, and whatever you’re currently facing. It’s especially good in the middle of all of the chaos we find ourselves in at the minute.

Please do get in touch if you want to learn, or know more information – it really is a useful skill for life.

Keep grounded. Keep meditating.

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Raw cheesecake

As I keep getting asked for this recipe, I thought I would share it – maybe you have these things in and can give it a go!
It’s so easy to do and there’s no baking either. Oh, and no cheese! It’s raw and vegan (but please don’t give it to anyone with a nut allergy!!)
I love these for snacks – I usually make small individual ones in a muffin tray. You can use a normal cake tin if you want to make a bigger one.
I sometimes eat them frozen to give more an ice cream feel, and something thaw them for a creamer texture.
The filling  flavours are endless too – there’s sure to be something you love!
I’ve experimented with the following so far:
– Matcha green tea
– Chocolate/cacao with caramel (and just plain chocolate/cacao, and plain caramel!)
– Blueberry
– Strawberry
– Peanut butter
– Mint
– Orange
Please share your ideas too!
I also don’t like waste, so after making a batch I make a smoothie before I’ve washed the blender! Add fruit, veggies and water then mix and drink!
Ingredients
Base
1 cup of Pitted medjool dates
1 cup of Walnuts or almonds
Filling
1 1/2 cup Cashew nuts
2/3 cup Coconut milk
1 large lemon, juiced
Pinch Himalayan Salt
1/2 cup Agave nectar or maple syrup, if needed
Method 
Place dates in a food processor, mix until they form a ball, then take out.
Put the nuts in the food processor, and blitz to small pieces. Add the dates back in, and blend until they form a dough-like texture. It should stick together well, so if it’s too dry add a little water, or if it’s too wet add more nuts.
Put the date/nut mixture in your choice of tray, and press it down to compact it. Place this in the freezer while you prepare the filling (or about 15 minutes, whichever is longer).
Add all filling ingredients to the food processor, and mix until you have a creamy texture.
Get the tray from the freezer, and scoop the filling on top of the base. You may need to tapthe tray on a surface a few times to release any air bubbles. Place it back in the freezer for 4-6 hours until it is set firmly.
Then, take out, share, and eat!
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Lockdown – the simple life

Since lockdown, I’ve discovered the joy in finding time to do things like going on a bike ride or a walk with my family who I’m locked in with. 
Going down memory lane to places I’ve not been to since I was a kid; finding pathways I never knew existed.
Loving exploring again. No, it might not a new country, or a new place, but we can still explore what’s in front of us if we really think and open our eyes and ears. This lockdown has shown me that again.
Life should not be all work, work, work. Striving to slow down and just be, so you can look and feel what’s around you is just as important.
Going down to the allotment with my mum, watching her grow some of our food. Things I don’t really know about, which I feel I should try and learn.
Having time to read more, and cook more of the things I love!
So much of this simplistic life which we usually take for granted.
It really can be soul soothing. Feeling rested, to feel energised. It’s good for everyone whether we admit or not…
I know not all of us have been given this opportunity as we need to work, or have others to care for, but believe me I would doing that if I could. Being brought up from a hard working background has made the enforced stopping really difficult.
So, I’m honouring this time, and feeling gratitude that this has made me stop, pause, and reflect.
Please keep well and healthy!
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All I wanna do is have some fun!

While waiting for my latest Zoom yoga session to start, I had a spontaneous thought, and decided to try and post every day on social media (links below) all sorts of different ways to do headstands.
Each post is a video, to show that they can be done, wobbles and all! A wobble is just the core connecting and waiting to stabilise, and they happen to everyone!
Firstly, the most important is to get your foundation right. Then, you need to let go of your fear, engage your muscles, and up you go.
Practice makes perfect so they say – I’m not achieving perfection but doing this light heartedly! If you’ve never done a headstand before, please seek guidance and use a wall to gain confidence first.
Some people think it’s just messing around, or having a play, but it’s all fun, and why shouldn’t I have fun?! Fun keeps us young, and you’re never too old to have fun – playtime is definitely not just for children, but we’re all young at heart.
Get creative, try new things. Take yourself out of your comfort zone and see what you can achieve and create!
So, headstands done differently. Any thoughts or suggestions? Ones I’ve tried so far are:
Day 1 Tripod headstand to crow to headstand
Day 2 Feetup trainer, headstand to tuck in to headstand
Day 3 My yoga wheel, plank to pike headstand to plank
…and lots more to come!
Check out my Instagram or Facebook and let me know your thoughts in the comments. I’d love to see your creations too! Have fun!